do you trust ur instinct? ke korg rase instinct ni kdg2 'mainan perasaan' je? dlm daily life kita, otak kita ada conscious (sedar) & subconscious (inilah yg kita panggil instinct or separa sedar) parts.
Conscious - otak kita slalu pakai this part mostly on complex decision-making. most of us believe that to make a big decision (e.g. nk kawen umo 26 ke umo 30?), kita kena fikir dlu baik buruknye kn? kena timbal balik the pros & the cons.. xkn la kita yg selama ni xbfkir lgsg bab2 'family ni, tibe2 arini terus decide & kate nk kawen esok kot. mau beroyan makayah dikejenye..
Subconscious - bnda2 ni slalunye bnda2 simple.. amik cth, time2 tghari, perut lapar dh bunyik tarian naga. then kt dpn mata ada roti canai & karipap. so tugas subconscious otak kita adalah utk decide yg mane satu perlu kita terkam dlu.. (xkn la lapar sgt smpaikn rembat dua2 tu masuk mulut skaligus kot. tu bkn lahap, tu dah rakus namanye!)
actually, most psychologists said that it's better to follow your instinct when kita nk buat big decision. this sounds really mad but experts said that from most of their studies & experiments, kbykn dr 'typical human beings' mbuat keputusan yg TEPAT whenever dia TIDAK bfkir pjg ttg bnda yg dia nk decide tu. lg dia fkir, lg salah plak keputusan yg dia akn buat nnt..
diorg kate instinct (subconscious brain) adalah lg advanced drpd conscious brain. instinct kita dh 'siap2 buat decision' jauh lbh awal sblm otak kita mule bfkir ttg baik buruk sesuatu bnda tu.
hmm, so adakah conscious brain kita ni sekadar menjadi 'pak turut' kpd instinct kita..? sungguh pelik.. kn? klu xfhm, sile la jgn tnye aku.. tnye pacit gugel yg leh tlg carikkn results experiments psychologists tu..
tp frankly speaking, aku pecaye jugak bab2 instinct ni (but not 100%).. especially bab NALURI IBU. yg tu toksah lawan ar.. mmg aku sungguh amazed dgn ke-power-an seorg ibu..
drpd past experiences aku sndri, stp kali bile aku rase sedey je kt cni, rase pilu di hati, sayu di hiris sembilu.. 2-3 minit lps tu, for sure mak aku akn call or at least bg msg.. cam tau2 je anak bongsu dia ni tgh sedey sorg2 & perlukn teman.. mmg sungguh ajaib.. gerak hati seorg ibu ni, Subhanallah.. hanya Allah je yg tau cmne leh jd gitu..
jadi, korg pecaye ke tak bab2 Naluri or Instinct ni? obviously, stp kputusan yg kita nk buat kita kena fkir baik & buruknye.. tp kdg2, bile dh jd heavy sgt, ada baiknye kita 'just follow the flow'... tp kena beringat! jgn follow the flow smpai hanyut lemas. klu reti berenang xpe. klu terus tenggelam?
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